2011 - Incoming!

You should have seen Mark dancing at his bldg's New Year's party. It was hot! He even did his PeeWee Herman dance. They had the assisted living bldg. party at noon, with a fantastic band and talented singers. We ate game hens and rice, green beans and chocolate cream pie. Oi! Deedee and Melissa and others danced up a storm. Some of the residents did, too. (I think they may have 'professional' experience. : ) Mark and I danced together some, especially to Unchained Melody - our song. It was so romantic! We counted down to the new year on Australia's time (because the residents will likely be in bed at midnight). Then we went over to Mark's bldg., where we all wore party hats and used our noisemakers for the countdown. They also had a terrific male singer. Then we were served cake and ice cream. Oi vey! I couldn't finish any of the food, which is a good thing! The people here are happy and friendly and genuine, even if they're having problems. I like that. It is a whole 'nother place, and it's fun to observe and participate. I met Don, the owner, today. He was very personable, but he didn't stick around a long time because he and his paramour were flying to California to get away. Tonight, we'll probably put a movie on in the theatre, and we can pop popcorn (in their machine). Deedee and Melissa will probably join us. This is the most celebration I've had on New Year's Eve - it's like Defending Your Life, all the time (all except the no calories part). I love that we're getting further on in the 2000's. We're the Jetsons! 2010 brought a lot of changes for our family and our pets. Seth got his driver's license and his first accident, he started on his EMT training (interrupted by health and other problems), and now he rents a room and has Leto with him. Hope all goes well for him, and for Leto. Phillip went to training in Louisiana, and he'll deploy to Afghanistan in February, I believe (for 13 mos.). Mark and I were apart for four months! Crazy! But you do what you have to do. I wouldn't have made it without the family's support. Now we are reunited, and that's why Unchained Melody is newly meaningful to us. Tut is here, hiding/sleeping most of the day, then coming out and getting right in the middle of whatever we're doing. I mean, as close as he can possible get, with his stretchy body knocking everything out of the way. He is a hoot. So, I want to wish you a Happy New Year. Praying that Kittle Litty is found soon (we should all fast on Sunday for her return...Please, please, please, please!). I hope your year is full of joy! I'll take some pictures, I promise! xoxoxo

Sunny Nevada (!)

Hello! Long time no post! A bunch has happened since I last posted (a month and a half ago). I've been in the hospital several times for dehydration and my kidneys functioning on low, Seth has become independent and is renting a room from James and Rebecca and their children - Leto will be joining him there, Mark flew up for Christmas (courtesy of Julie, a part-owner of Willow Creek) at Melinda and Danny's home, and Phillip was there too. It was great to see the kids open presents, including Alex's Big Foot, an Imaginex toy from Fisher Price. It's so cool! Melinda and Danny had been keeping Leto for us, and he was fine till I got there, when he became anxious. When Mark arrived, he really wanted to go with him everywhere, to the extent of tearing up the downstairs door. How sad and crazy that was! Leto has now been staying at Ben and Linda's, with a bed in the garage. He has breaks outside, and I hear things are okay for now. I'm so grateful for family members who stepped up to help us. I think of Leto often, and all his hours of watching over our household. I hope he will be thrilled to see Seth when someone can get him back to Pocatello. Melinda and Danny did so much for us for Christmas, including giving us our own stocking. I can't wait for Seth to get his presents. We ate at Ben and Linda's on Christmas Day. Linda had a beautiful setting of china and a full menu, including turkey, stuffing, potatoes and chocolate chip cookies! The day after Christmas we ate ham, potatoes and hors d'oeuvres (spell ck. says this is the wrong spelling, but doesn't offer a better alternative - oh well...). Haley and Dallin joined us, as well as Hunter. He's so cute. Ben and Linda came with Josh who was also really cute. They're at such funny ages, where they have lots of personality and no inhibitions once they warm up to people. Josh was hugging Hunter, or trying to pick him up, which frightened Hunter. They were like puppies playing rough with each other, only one is the larger puppy and the smaller one isn't quite sure about this playing thing. Phillip was there at the dinner also, and Justin, who really did so much for everyone. Mark and I left that night for Las Vegas, and we got here Monday morning at 7 a.m. Tut rode behind Mark's feet the whole way, and I slept. The skies were sunny and continue so, and the weather is very comfortable this time of year. It's cool that there isn't ever any winter here (as long as there is air conditioning). Willow Creek is so luxurious. We are staying on the second floor in a very private section, and our windows look over a long, landscaped courtyard. There is a chapel, pub, gaming room, exercise room, salon, theatre room (just like a real theatre), a huge gathering room, and huge dining room where they take orders like a restaurant would. The architecture is so beautiful here, with high ceilings and large crown moldings. The light fixtures are uniquely made (I'll get pictures asap) and the furniture is luxurious and comfortable, all accessible. I can even roll up under the sink, without needing to stretch for the faucets! There are two big-screen tvs in the rooms, a really tall bookcase, a chest and bedstands, a couch and huge beveled marble coffee table and a dining table. There is also a computer table right by one of the windows. Our first night here, Mark and I dined on filet mignon in the dining room, and last night we went out with Mark's assistant, Melissa, and Deedee, the boss's sister and head of the assisted living building. We ate at Mimi's Cafe (I think), and the food was quite good. My favorite thing was fried zucchini strips! Melissa and Deedee are both very likeable and we enjoyed our evening with them, which wound up with Deedee getting a call about a fire in the bldg. Turned out it was a small thing, thank goodness, but it goes to show how anything can happen at any time and you have to be right on your toes. I'm glad I don't have all that responsibility! I went out to the large gathering room yesterday, to see a female singer that was performing. It's just funny that it was right around the corner. I haven't looked up what there is to do here or in the area yet, but I know there is a lot. I've just been getting familiar with things. Mark drove me around a little. Outside the bldg. you can see Home Goods and TJ Maxx about half a block away! Also, Glazier's Food Market, the top-rated grocery in the city. It's really kind of unbelievable with all the options for things to see and do! You can get rides right from here, in Willow Creek's van (with a wheelchair lift, I think). Well, Tut is getting in the middle of things here, so I'd better close. We keep him brushed and it really cuts down on the hair. Tut loves sleeping under our bed, but he comes out when he's needy for play, petting, eating, or sitting in the window. I hope your holidays are happy, and I'll post later about things I forgot. Thank you! xoxoxo

I Did It!

New post below and new header! (Please, Megan, help me correct the big blank space before the posts!) PS See comments section for more...

Pre-Thanksgiving Visit

I had the most wonderful weekend in I.F.! Melinda and Danny picked me up Wednesday evening and we went back for Book Club at Misty's. Her house is beautifully different than most houses in the neighborhood, with a wide open plan based on angled walls and unexpected built ins and huge windows. Book Club was as interesting and enlivening as it usually is, based on Misty's pick, Saving Fish From Drowning by Amy Tan. We learned that Tan's best book is The Joy Luck Club, or at least the one most highly recommended. Thurs. afternoon, Melinda took the two girls and me to Michael's, for a couple of hours of looking. It was so crowded! They have much better merchandise than they used to have, and I enjoyed looking around at one quarter of the store. : ) They have caught the vision of KandCo products (hallelujah!), and I bought some of their magnificent diecuts for $3.99 (but with 50% off coupon, so $2). And something else for the same price, but I forget what. Melinda also gave me some of their diecuts that she had leftover from some invitation making. Woohoo! (Not 'Woot!' - that's just annoying.) The kids have been waking up at night since the time change. They also wake up around 6 a.m., so Melinda hasn't been getting much sleep and Alaina's been tired and cranky and Emme is tired and teething, so they changed Tristan's bedroom while I was there. Now he's downstairs in the little area by Alex's bedroom. I think he thinks it's cool, with his little rug and bed and so on. Now he and Alaina won't keep each other up or wake each other. I hope it works out! So far, so good. Friday night Kattie and Haley and Hunter and Linda and Ben and Josh (Ben and Josh left later that evening) came over and we visited and at tatertot casserole and salad, and Kattie brought leftover Halloween candy and Haley brought hot cocoa, and we visited and sewed circle/scrunchie barrettes and watched Young Victoria, which everyone liked. Kattie and Haley and Hunter stayed the night, and Haley missed lots of sleep watching so that Hunter didn't wake up. They left the next a.m., and we all agreed that it had been so enjoyable! (Megan, we talked about wishing you were there with us! But we enjoyed the candy for you. ; ) Saturday, in the later afternoon (after I dozed all day), Justin went with Danny and Mel's family and me to Sam's Club, where we tasted as much food as possible and wandered around. I got a summer sausage and the Campbell/Cripe household stocked up a little on groceries. I enjoyed that a bunch. Afterwards, Justin drove me home. Oh, I forgot to mention that I had Leto with me, inside the house or cars, the whole time. Even tho it was inconvenient to the Campbell's, they were very patient and everyone liked the fact that I could stay longer with Leto there with me. We took his bin of dog food with us, and he was so good with the kids. He went on a couple of rides/walks with Melinda and Linda, and he had a ball doing that sort of thing. He also liked being outside with Alex, or with Danny and Melinda while they raked leaves. Leto went on a walk with Linda at night, delivering something to a neighbor. How fun for him! And Linda probably felt safer with him along. Justin, Leto, and I rode back to our house in Danny and Melinda's Crown Victoria, which was a cop car. It rode so smoothly, and I loved the experience. So, thank you all for helping Leto and I have such an enjoyable outing, for visiting with us and plowing through the inconveniences and taking us to stores and fixing meals and cleaning up and hauling me in and out of houses and cars and watching a great movie together. It was good for me and for us! And thank you to my readers, too! Happy Thanksgiving time! xoxoxo xoxoxo

Just the Facts, Ma'am...

If you're wondering where I've been, I've been right here. : ) Sorry no posts lately. Last night, Seth made us hot French bread sandwiches and jalopeno poppers - they were so good! - and we watched Defending Your Life. Seth and I were laughing out loud, it was so funny! Book Club is tomorrow night, and I just got the call from the library today, that it was finally in. Crazy! So I have it now and will try to read it very quickly. :-/ I need to hurry and do something else right now, but just wanted to post that Mark mailed me caramel corn and a bag made in Israel and some little fairies. He also won a Betty Boop doll for me, just by accident. Isn't that sweet? Remember, these are just the highlights; I'll spare you the rest, lol. Take care and I'll add more asap! xoxoxo PS I know the header isn't finished. I don't know how to add pics yet, and don't have time to find out!

The Path

Hello, November 3rd people! Thx for your comments. I absolutely enjoy getting comments when I post. Isn't it fun? It's kind of like being a student again and getting feedback on a story you wrote. I've always loved that experience. Maybe not even a story, but a project of some kind. It's exhilarating to give it your all in some creative endeavor and then see and share the results. Pres. Uktdorf (sp?) is right on about the joy of creativity and our need for that. I would guess that's even more true in a family that leans toward the artistic and dramatic, musical and writing side of life.

We also love nurturing, either kids or animals or flowers or whatever. I think that so many things we are encouraged to do in the Gospel are right up our alley anyway. I think the flip side of that coin is learning to be more laid back and even. More structured.

It brings me so much joy when I am able to manage some structure in my life, and then I fit the creative things around that. I need lots of consistency to do that, with a dollop of adventure and silliness added in at times. I like getting certain things accomplished, then playing, producing, etc., whatever I want to. What luxury, then! It feels like I am flying!

So remember, you young mothers - you're creating and nurturing the most magical projects ever! Or anyone who deals with human beings or animals or plants, or does artwork or has a talent they use: there is the actual work side to what you are doing, and there is also an open window that lets you fly, that is limitless and unpredictable and blessed.

That is what C.S. Lewis came to see about living a life of faith and obedience; J.R.R. Tolkien spent a night walking and talking with him, and a light came on. Lewis had an epiphany. He suddenly understood that an obedient life doesn't restrict you - it frees you! That is where all the magic really is, beyond anything that we can comprehend.

Live your lives by an internal standard that isn't ruled by circumstance or people, but by an understanding of the truth.

Never forget that, for that is the true path to happiness.

Car Adventures

These past 2 weeks (and more) have been filled with all kinds of car repairs - not to the engine, which is newer than the rest of the car (it has 210,000 miles on it), but the brake shoes, caliper and rotor on one side, tires, passenger window, and general maintenance. Oh, I guess we had to slow an oil leak, too. I say "we," but I mean Seth as far as labor is concerned. It still needs new struts or shocks, the windows fixed or stabilized, a new front window, and a fix for the oil leak. We know where that is, and it's fixable, from what I understand. Seth has been doing a lot of walking and carrying parts, tires, etc. Whew! It's so much better when the car is working, at least for carrying things! I haven't been to a store in a long time. I would really like to go. My aid would take me, but she's been sick for a week or more. She comes, but can't do so much, so I hate to ask her to take me around to the stores. I'd like to go to Wal Mart, Sierra's, and DI. I want to find a better old book to alter, if I can (that's a project I'll share with you later on). I really don't have money to spend, but it would probably cost almost nothing. I've been watching QVC. It's really relaxing: no commercials and everything's cheerful and pretty. I'm taking huge, catch-up doses of vitamin D. The dr. prescribed it because I was super-deficient in it. Now I feel jumpy and can't sleep well, but it doesn't bother me. It's like I don't need very much sleep, I guess. I sound so unsure because it's been just this last week, so we'll see. I've been taking Reliv, but skipped it for a while, till we got it reordered. Maybe that is why I became deficient. Well, that and not drinking milk, etc. Anyway, Reliv really makes a difference for me, in every way. I just count it as part of the food budget, because it is a food, and I eat less of other things when I take it. I don't have cravings then. Today is Sunday, but I won't be going to church, so they'll bring the sacrament to me. They probably think I'm just faking, lol, because I seem well on the surface. They're always really nice, and it's so good to be able to get the sacrament each week. Last night I dreamt about my missing legs. It's always the same: my legs are miraculously reattached, but they are still separate. People think they are just normal, and then some situation arises that calls for me to show them that I don't have normal legs. In my dreams, they are kind of fragile and that is why I end up explaining about them. People are always astonished that my amputated limbs are still able to be used, and then I feel pretty unique and special. Isn't that funny? Phillip called. He's going back to Louisiana for 3 weeks, to have more training. He doesn't know yet about when he'll get out. Crazy, but his training sounds like fun because it's very realistic. That's about all. Happy Halloween, everybody! xoxoxo

A Very Alice Month

I've spent the past two days reading an Ann Rule book (In the Still of the Night) and reading, commenting on and posting on blogs. I have really enjoyed your posts! It's amazing how in touch they keep us! Mark is now working on making Garrett Popcorn's cheese popcorn, at least a close as he can get to it. His last batch of caramel was the best so far. He continues to learn and tweak things, but the cheese popcorn will be harder to do. It has a more complex blend of ingredients (mostly oils). They use coconut oil, for one, which brings more flavor to the recipe. I'm excited for him! Did you know that he made me an Alice book as a surprise? It is on cardstock and each page is in its own page protector, in a binder with a cover sheet. It has the history of the book and then the actual book, plus color illustrations from various editions of it. Wasn't that sweet of him? And at DI, I found an anthology of all of Charles Dodgson's (Lewis Carroll) works. It has gilt-edged pages and a ribbon bookmark, and is in perfect condition! I never knew he wrote anything other than the Alice books (well, I may have known, but forgot about it). So this has been a very "Alice" month. Btw, I prefer the 1939 movie over all the other Alice movies. Gary Cooper plays the white knight in it, and W.C. Fields is Humpty Dumpty. It is based on Through the Looking Glass, which is my favorite over Alice in Wonderland (except for that little door she goes thru in the latter, and the rabbit hole she falls down). I love it when she goes right through the looking glass. Also, when she picks up the little chess people, the story of The Walrus and the Carpenter (love Disney's cartoon-version of that), her playing with Dinah on the chair and getting drowsy, and the queen turning into a sheep. Which parts are your favorites in Alice? Would you mind sharing?

I Have My Computer Back!

I finally got my computer back! It's the only one that will access blogger, for some reason. Whew! I've waited a few days longer, wondering where to start; I want to write something about Ben and Linda's baby, but decided, finally, that that will be a separate post. Meanwhile, Mark came to visit last weekend, to make sure the house and car are ready for winter. I couldn't believe, when Mark came in the house, that I have this person who is so sharp-looking and alive. It was strange at first, because I wasn't used to having someone assisting me all the time. He's so thoughtful! While Mark was here, he changed the furnace filter, checked out the car (Seth already changed the transmission fluid and got some tires to replace the bald ones, plus put something in to slow the oil leak - it needs new brake pads and shocks, and the oil leak needs to be fixed, besides a new front window at some pt. Ah, me...), took me to a dr.'s appt., helped me pack up the bedroom, made caramel corn, fried chicken wings, eggs and toast, blueberry muffins and bacon, went through the mail, took down the window air conditioner and put up styrofoam insulation, took me to Wal Mart (to give the extended family a break - right, Tamathy? ;) amd Scrappin' Essentials, took out the fan and brought in the little heater, and generally checked things out. We talked about the move and his job, which is going well. He's since told me that he shared some of his zip-loc of caramel popcorn that he took back with him, and his boss (and other staff ) went wild for it! Wait till they taste his cream of mushroom soup, strawberry ice cream, clam dip, artisanal bread, banana nut bread, hot chocolate, blueberry muffins, German chocolate cake, brownies, hamburgers, prime rib, French onion soup, cheesecake, fried chicken, chocolate pie, chicken salad, pork chops, and (our) meatloaf, vegetable soup, chicken noodle soup, and ham rollups - I'm sure I'm forgetting many other of Mark's specially prepared foods. It's hard to remember them all! My aid tasted the popcorn and said, "He should sell that!" I agree. (And, btw Mark, I saw bags of caramel corn selling for ten bucks each at Sierra's recently.) Seth has been continuing with his EMT class. I'm glad he enjoys it. Phillip that he might be says he might get out of the Army a little early, for medical reasons. I hope they give him his full GI Bill money for school! Phillip says he wants to work and save his money, maybe for a mission? He should go to school at Rexburg, where they are very encouraging about missions. Don't give up on your dream, Phillip! Phillip also said that an 8-hour job would seem like a vacation. "Oh, you start at 8 a.m.? I'll get to sleep in!" We've had continually gorgeous, gorgeous weather. It's supposed to be cooler and wet this weekend, I believe. We're coming up on the elections - Mark, be sure and vote in Nevada! Let's all vote, okay? That's all I think of right now. It's a lot to cover! Now I'm off to read your posts. Happy October!! xoxoxo

Just An Ordinary Monday In Paradise

Aren't they cute? Just had to show you this picture off the Internet

The weather is gorgeous all the time this month. It's amazing, and I sit outside and read or do crosswords every morning, pretty much. That's not news, I know. Seth had an all-day class again Saturday. It seems like his training is so thorough, and I'm glad about that. He also seems to be doing well over all. I hope he continues to. He's gone alot, chopping firewood and mowing lawns (with other people's mowers). He and some friends chopped and split firewood to sell. Did I already tell you that? Anyway, I'm glad he's keeping busy. Mark is doing fine, seeing some of the many, many sights around Vegas. He went in a really fancy chocolate shop where they gave out whole pieces as samples. His was a caramelized pecan rolled in cocoa powder, and he said it was sooooo good. Can't wait to go there myself! He said it was like being in Chocolat. As for me, I'm managing really well so far. It's nice and peaceful (my favorite!) and I have a routine I follow. The main thing is, I take my shots and meds at certain times (strictly) and I do things I need to do before I get to play (play usually means computer games like Faunasphere). I play or browse for several hours each day, rather than watching tv, although at night I watch tv - I just fall asleep quickly, espcially if the show I'm watching is fascinating and wonderful. Do any of you do that? I have yet to make it through Rebecca (the movie) because I'm so happy when I watch it! (Isn't this fascinating? My basically solitary life. Btw, if robbers are reading this, we are armed and ready and have a huge, mean German Shepherd Dog! teehee) I look forward to visiting Vegas one of these days. Won't that be fun? Each Sunday, I try and get to church, but haven't succeeded. They've started bringing me the sacrament, which I so appreciate. Yesterday I was so weak! I need to order more Reliv. And that's all I can think of right now. Thank you for your awesome blog posts. I enjoy them so much! Love You All! xoxoxo

September Season

September is so beautiful this year! I sat outside reading today, all morning, and it was about 65 degrees with a light breeze and a bright sun. Perfectly perfect! Since then, I've been reading blogs and organizing lists and ideas and talking with Seth, who is gone now. I'm here by myself almost allll the time! It's fun. Leto is getting even smarter. He understands when I suggest things like going to his food bowl (other end of the house) and eating a couple of bites, or going to his water bowl (in our bathroom) and getting a drink, or just staying nearby. It's amazing sometimes, how he truly understands words. Mark is doing fine still, and we talk a bunch on the phone. I never worry about him, because he's good and smart and brave and can take care of himself. I love him, btw. hehehee (proud, wicked laugh)! I took the best bubble bath this a.m. We use Ivory dish liquid for bubbles. So relaxing. Tomorrow I go for a bone density scan and Seth has his class. He's going to the store for me tonight. I want the ingredients for banana nut bread and choc. chip cookies~ yum! Wish me luck! Love you...a bunch! xoxoxo

Sniff, Sniff...

I've been somewhat 'down' today. I woke up, barely, and went back to sleep for a while. When I did get up, I didn't feel well. When I don't feel well, I feel kind of overwhelmed about the state of the world, right on down to worrying about the tiniest things in our lives. If I feel this way, then surely there is no hope for any of us, lol. Anyway, I'm quite pathetic. And how are you? Cause if you're good, I'll let you carry the burden. And no, it doesn't help to think of Heavenly Father's help when I'm like this: that just encourages me to feel overwhelmed, because then I can't fend off all my dad's dire warnings about the end of the world or our secret, rotten, hidden core that might be hiding amidst our intestines, unbeknownst to us. Of course, that premise denies the principle of agency, but, when I'm in the throes of my fevered anguish, all rational thinking is out the window! Seth went to see about a job, and the pets are locked out of my room for the time being. The tv isn't on, but the fan is - it's hot! Hence, I didn't go outside with Leto and I don't want to be around him if he's whiny. Seth did brush him, however, and did his other pet-chores and moved the sprinkler before he left. I've been trying to think of plots for the Three-Minute Fiction contests on NPR. Tamathy told me about it. You should go to npr.org and look it up. Last month's winner was intimidatingly well-written, but the runners-up weren't so great. My mind is a blank rt. now, however; at least in terms of original ideas. Hope you're having a good day. If not, don't tell me!

PS On Books

Duh...Just look at my profile for books I love!

Book Recommendations

(Watch for updates on the photos to the right. I plan to change them soon.)

I remember something I was going to tell you all: The other day someone called here for medical info., and I told them to hang on while I retrieved it. On coming back to the phone, I gave them the information, but they didn't reply. It was so weird, just dead silence and no dial tone, either.

I was just about to ask them if they were still there, when I realized I'd been talking into the tv remote control.

Isn't that hilarious?

Fortunately, she was still on the phone and I gave her the info. she needed.

Hah!

Haley, I agree about the Jane Austen books. They are wonderful! Also, the ones by the Bronte (I don't know how to type the accent over the e) sisters. I think you've read the Little House books; the Little Britches series is wonderful. Have you read Little Women? I love the Dune series, but it's a particular sci fi taste that you might not enjoy. People really like Madeline L'Engle's books, and Orson Scott Card's. They're fantasy and sci fi, too.

It's easier to recommend authors than books, for some reason. You know I love Betty MacDonald's writing. Pearl S. Buck's books are wonderful, especially The Good Earth. And there's always GWTW, one of my favorites. Black Beauty is so sad, but I've always loved it. Also, Lois Lowry's The Giver.

Cheaper By the Dozen has some good sequels, and the James Herriot books are excellent. I know I'm forgetting so many, but my books are packed up right now.

I love biographies and autobiographies. You should check out that section in the library.

You've probably read The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton - it's such a great story. I like YA fiction, obviously, and kid's books. Other favorites are Old Yeller, Where the Red Fern Grows, and The Velveteen Rabbit (an absolute favorite).

If you haven't read Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass, you ought to, I think. They're just wonderful. The Oz books are good. And the Narnia series is wonderful, too.

Personally, I enjoy reading Nancy Drew, and The Happy Hollisters.

Have you read Wild Swans? If you haven't, go check it out! It's outrageously interesting and absorbing and educational and inspiring.

I'll add more books to this post as I remember them, so check back later, but at least these are some that I really like and would recommend looking at. I absolutely love nonfiction, and one of the best is The Devil in the White City, so you might look that up, too.

Nothing is really going on today. Seth has class this evening, and yesterday he took the car to be repaired (he said it runs much smoother now - yay!). The weather is gorgeous, and I leave the patio doors open all the time.

Thank you for your comments. I really appreciate them! And, Megan, I looked at your photo cds, and I can't believe how many good pictures you got of the Campbells. Also, you and Kim got so many great shots of your family last year. Great action shots of Aiden and the kite, too.

So, take care and I will post more later!

xoxoxo

Tell Me What You Think...

Of my new blog design! (Thanks, Megan, for the info) Btw, the car still runs fine so far. As of today, it runs better, in fact, but it still needs the tires, shocks, and the oil leak fixed. Today was a total wash, so I just pretended I had the flu - no guilt! Love you! xoxoxo

Housekeeping

On this day in 2010 the sky is whispery and warm and there are large numbers of garulous birds in our trees. Can you tell I've been rereading Housekeeping? It's my pick for the book club next month, the first novel by Marilynne Robinson, a word artist whose prose turns and floats and is light and easy, yet evokes powerful sensations and memories that linger at the periphery of conscious awareness: pale skies and old homes that smell like postcards in photo albums, mud on my tough boy-shoes, and high grass filled with webs. They are vivid and unexamined and sensory and they turn into dreams of gladiolus flowers, growing in masses.

That's exactly what happens, and her writing is unique in my experience.

Seth woke me before seven this morning. He has class all day long every other Saturday. We both thought he would enjoy himself today. There's a camaraderie in learning a medical-type profession. I think it's simply because you start to feel separate from the rest of the population - from those that you will be serving. It's a 'secret clubhouse' kind of feeling.

Yesterday we ran some errands, then took Leto for some ice cream. That marked the trip as an event for Leto. When I go out on the back concrete and read, he lays in the lush grass, half-awake and taking in the sounds and smells of our neighborhood. Tut goes outside with us, stretching out on the patio table. It's very peaceful here.

Our car is having some work done on it. The guy is doing the job for free, and Seth will help him so he can learn more about car engines. We need front shocks and a new tire and the tires all need to be rotated. We'll wait for those things, but the cracked gasket in the 't pan' (?) will be fixed now. We put oil in the car quite frequently. Maybe this will stop the leak somehow. Idk much about it, but I'm glad we are able to attend to the car, as well as the yard. Seth cut weeds yesterday with our machete, and we hope to spray them down (and out!). They're along the far side of the driveway.

I had such a good visit to Danny and Melinda's last Wednesday and Thursday. Seth dropped me off in the early afternoon before book club, and Justin drove me home late Thurs. night. While I was in IF, Mel took me to see the dentist and I was able to get a small adjustment to my new teeth that improves their fit. Yay! And we went to T.J. Maxx and I bought some bath soak, and liq. hand soap that smells like almonds. Mmmm. I was looking forward to a most sensual bathtime, but, alas, I left them at Melinda's. Ahh well...I still had a great visit with them, and Lainey said some funny things that Melinda might post, so I won't tell you myself.

Their kitchen felt like autumn, so warm and vibrant with trees outside and cooking inside. I hesitate to describe it, because I know it's painful for Haley and Megan to miss out on. Just try to be happy for us, and look forward to further times of togetherness, because I know they are coming!

I picked up some cds from Melinda. They are from Megan, and they contain pictures she took of Danny and Melinda's family, of her own family's trip out here, and of other things that I'm excited to see. Thanks, Megan!!

Thank you for reading this, and Phillip, we did get that errand accomplished for you. : )Mark is doing well and enjoying the use of a car. His job feels stable, at least as much as one can in this economy, and that is something we appreciate!

Best wishes to all of you!

xoxoxo

Chugging Along

Okay, now Seth is driving to classes and he took me to the store - yay! His driving is waaay improved, and I'm minding his schedule a little more (taking considerati0n for his classes and studying, mowing, etc.). This a.m., we went to see the dr. that took over for my old intern. He is super-good and really pays attention with being weird. Seth saw him too and got his TB test and some medicine that might help him even out and be able to sleep. We're hopeful about that! He goes back in two days to have his TB test checked and get whatever shots he needs. I feel like the lady on the Geico ad, saying, "And we're walking, and we're walking..." Hurray for us! I had sooo much fun shopping for groceries. I spared Mark all the details, but I won't spare you, lol~ I got spicy V-8s, tomato juices, grape tomatoes, 3 avocados, Santia's tostito chips, 3 cans of black olives, a thing of green olives, Ruffles chips and dip (had to), cat fud, dog fud, a nail file, some 'Profs, a spicy peanut noodle cup and one red curry noodle cup, extra crispy tater tots (Get your own dang tots!), some pepper jack cheese, am. cheese singles, 3 pks. of dried beef, some boiled ham (lunchmeat), butternut squash soup (2 little cartons), some cinnamon graham crackers, mustard pretzel bits, peppered beef jerky, extra noodles Lipton soup mix, pot pies, mint cocoa, and I think that's all. Doesn't that sound good? Yum! That's the kind of food I like (exc. for the pets' fud)! We already have milk, eggs, bread, hamburger meat, etc. Now Seth will go to class this evening. I've been watching Star Wars movies and eating grape tomatoes. And that's all I have to say about that! I love you! xoxoxo

Fri.

Hey. What's up? Didja have a good today so far? Seth and I are kind of frustrated. He mowed, but when he went for immunizations, the holiday Mon. interfered with his TB test, so he'll have to go back. And he was taking me to the store, but we didn't go because it never works out. I'm just going to ask a neighbor to take me. And Seth will therefore have to walk to classes. That's the breaks! What else? Mark says the staff and patients and families are all happy that he's there. That's really cool to hear. He won't miss Idaho's winter, either. It's been 132? days there without water. 150 is the record. That part's scary! Leto is so good about staying rt. outside when our French doors are open. It's so cute! And I found some toys I was missing, so that makes me happy. I'm excited that Chris and Laura are moving to Idaho. Yay! (Our family is slowly taking over Idaho and the West. Did you notice that? Hehehe!) Well, better go for now. I love you! xoxoxo

September Thursday

The light changes in September. It softens. Seth went on his own and got fingerprinted today. Then he left for his class, which he's attending after doing some errands. It's amazing that those things are getting done. He gets his immunizations tomorrow, and then we can think about a CPR class and his other class. I've been sleeping all day - didn't sleep all night - and listening to the movie, "Beckett," with Richard Burton and Peter O'Toole. It's a beautiful movie, good to dream to. I think that's all for now. I got a new hose and mask for my O2, and distilled water and prescrips. Seth is mowing tomorrow, also. Have fun! xoxoxo PS Don't miss my last post!

Looking Forward...

Hi. Waiting like this, I go thru moods of being lonely and desperate, alternating with enjoyment and hope and excitement, mostly the latter. I'm so excited to join Mark in Las Vegas! It feels like we're moving to the carnival/store/celbrity-watching center of the world! Yet we're in a good ward with lots of good people and opportunities for service, right where Mark works! Isn't that cool? I just want to list some of the cool things to do where we'll live, beside the lights and fountains and all of that. There are crazy-unusual red rock formations there, a ton of museums, Lake Mead, stocked fishing ponds, roller coasters, game shows, lots and lots of cool stores, and all kinds of shows that are family-friendly. I never noticed how much happens in Las Vegas until I became hyper-aware of its name - it is mentioned constantly on television. America's Got Talent, Top Chef, dancing shows, and on and on go there, besides regular tv shows that are always there. I'm sure there are big horse shows too. I've heard the garage sales are fantastic. And Mark has already met a celebrity through his work; I guess that's inevitable, lol. People living there need to help their parents find a place to live in their old age. Also, they might want to retire there themselves. So you meet them. It reminds me of the Howalds living by Branson, only even more in the middle of all of that type of thing. I guess you just get used to it. As far as what we've been doing, Seth got to his class with his books and all went well. He has to get his immunizations caught up (Fri. appt.) and a criminal background check (tomorrow) and he needs to take a CPR class too. And another class, incidentally. He looks cool carrying his notebook and textbks. He took 7 pages of notes! I wrote him a list in a notebook of things he can check on and do each day, besides his class stuff. Then it's just easy for him to look over the list and make sure certain things, like watering the lawn, are maintained - without me saying anything. Then I have my things to keep track of, like meds and appts. and shopping and laundry and so on, and we're managing so far. I talk to Mark on the phone numerous times each day, and he sent me a box of prizes! It contained such treats as Tiny Chiclets and Necco Wafers, plus Barbie, Little Pony, and Princess stickers, ponytail holders, and little lotions and gels. Isn't that sweet? I know I'm forgetting something~ it was so sweet of him to do that! Oh, and a little Vegas shot glass, lol. And a wonderful lights of Las Vegas calendar. So fun to look at! It's funny, 'cause it's "Sin City," yet it is exciting in a good way, too. The most exciting thing is getting to live with my hubby again. That is the best reward of all! It's sweet to know that death won't separate us. We have so much hope and happiness that we will be together forever, and remembering that about our families makes life so much richer. I want to help others come to experience the fullness of Heavenly Father's eternal plan. We're not just what's happening at the moment or this year...we're forever!

He's Off!

Seth just left for his first EMT class. We looked up the bldg. it's in, on Google. Hope he finds it okay. He took a looseleaf notebook, his textbk. (I hope!), paper and pens. He has something to drink, also, during their break, 'cause it's a long class. There are lots of things to monitor here. It keeps me on my knees (lol!). So, wish us luck! Not much happening. Nice, nice weather here. Mark is fine and has a car now. Nothing's dying that I know of, so that's good. Lots of love to you all. xoxoxo

Everything, Everything!

Anya (photo courtesy of Megan)

Hi. Thx. for reading my blog, first of all. It really thrills me when you leave a comment, however small. I like it!

Thursday, the day after Seth got his license, I had a dental appt. in I.F., so we got to experience freeway driving! I have to say, Seth learns very quickly and the ride home wasn't nearly as scary!

We went to my appt., then swung by the insurance office, where my blood sugar really dropped (but I managed to conceal it). I, for some reason, didn't have something sweet with me so we went to Arby's and I got two cherry turnovers and some curly fries. Seth got a couple of sandwiches and some mozzarella sticks, and we shared a strawberry banana split shake. I felt like I was starving, and the food was EXCELLENT. Oh my goodness! You have to try that shake! And everything was so fresh and hot. It was the best food on earth (given my state of blood sugar and the fact that it really was good). We shared the fries and mozz. sticks, and I had a bite of his sandwich. Mmm, mmm, good. : ) One of those memorable eating experiences that you never forget!

It reminded me of when we'd drive to Bro. Jensen's in St. Louis. We'd take apples to eat, and the car would smell like apples. On the way home, we'd smell the food at a restaurant (it's name escapes me) by the freeway, and we would die! But a couple of times, the kids would earn some free food coupons at school, specifically for that place, and we'd spend a couple of dollars extra, and we'd get to eat from their salad bar. Oh, that was so good! They had chicken wings and potatoes and gravy and really, really good corn. Those are the things that I remember eating there. Megan and Melinda and I all remember those experiences, because we've talked about them.

Other food memories for me are having pork chops (once?) when I was little, and the few times we ate bacon. Also, eating watermelon with my mom - so good! And eating her homemade eggnog and the cookies she'd bake for the church bakesales - the "20,000 Mint Surprise" cookies, or "Starlight Mint Surprise." The best cookies in the world! They don't make the thin, dark chocolate mint discs that she used anymore, unfortunately. Andes Mints are the best substitute I know of.

I also loved her Molasses Chew cookies, and I'm always trying to find that recipe.

Occasionally, I would get a malted milk at Paul's Diner, in Decatur, Illinois. It's been owned by the same family since before I was born, and they make their own ice cream for their shakes, which are huge and delicious. I was introduced to milk shakes by Sis. Weatherbee, Carleen Weatherbee's (she was always my best friend) mom. She made the best homemade milkshakes, and forever spoiled me for fast-food chemical foams!

Another indelible food memory is drinking homemade lemonade at Turners' farm (Aunt Evelyn was good friends with Mrs. Turner), after fishing. We'd eat outside in the evening - the twilights were long and and exquisite, and I'll never forget them.

I'm sure the older kids remember butchering the pigs and having bacon sandwiches with garden tomatoes we had raised. I always felt that Arnold and Fred were happy that they had lived so long and well (they'd been free runts that were going to die, courtesy of cousin Jim, Evelyn's son), and that we really needed the food they provided for our family.

Being married to Mark has given me many indelible food memories. Standing out for me were clam dip, cream of mushroom soup, French onion soup, strawberry ice cream, dreamy hot chocolate, his hamburgers and pork chops and roasts and steaks, and prime rib, when we've had them. His beautiful turkeys for Thanksgiving, and his Christmas hams. And the chocolate pies and cheesecakes and German chocolate cakes and homebaked breads of all kinds, his oatmeal cookies and fragrant banana nut bread, and our meatloaf and vegetable soup, his buttermilk fried chicken and his shish kabobs, and Chinese food, and I could go on and on!

I know I'm forgetting some of his specialties, so remind me if you think of some I've overlooked!

It's amazing, especially being so limited physically, that I don't weigh ten tons!!

As for other food experiences, I love fresh fruit and brocolli, garden tomatoes and green onions, chives, and cucumbers ~ so many fresh and healthy, simple foods.

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I've been watching some really good movies lately, on tv. I can hardly remember their names, tho. Some were edited shows I've never seen before. I'll let you know if I remember their names, okay?

The weather has been great lately. Some hot days, and a few cool ones. Overall, it's been perfect August weather. Of course, you can't beat September and October here, and in some parts of the Midwest and New England and the Mid-Atlantic states. Megan and family should get to enjoy some great fall scenery in Amish country, in eastern Ohio.

Mark is doing well in his new job. The High Priest's group leader is loaning him a car, starting today. Isn't that nice? It will make a big difference for Mark!

He says that it all feels unreal still. No wonder, with living on the premises, not having a car, and all by himself!

He says he mailed me a box. So sweet of him! I'll have to make him one, too.

Tamathy and I were talking about Glenn Beck's gathering in D.C. today, and I'm going to try to take notes and write something funny about it. I know there'll be kooks there, from both sides of the political spectrum, and it should be great fodder for funny commentary. I hope so, because I really enjoy writing humorous material, but I have to be inspired to do so.

Then it's so easy. : )

What else? I can't think of much. Leto lies on the back patio when I have the door open, which I do when it's not very hot outside.

We both enjoy the fresh air and quiet.

Tut is very needy and reaches out his paws for attention

from his lazy, happy naps on the bed.

Mostly it's an act.

He's always been on the stage, in his mind, playing the part of a fat, happy cat.

He can hold a pose forever.

I think fall will go very quickly. I look forward to Mark's visits

and to visiting him in Las Vegas, as I'm able.

Won't that be fun?

As usual, I'm not planning to give many store-bought gifts this Christmas.

I realize that might seem chintzy, but it makes the season so much more enjoyable to do so.

It turns the holiday into something peaceful, long and loving,

and fun!

It gives me room to think and plan

And it allows time for many more seasonal, traditional activities.

I feel happy when I think of sledding, Christmas caroling, drinking cocoa by the fire,

spending time with family, and being a Secret Santa, some times!

Remember when we went to Linda's parents' home

and went on a horse-drawn hayride in the cold?

And then we rode Buddy and Jewel

We got some great pictures of the family

and the setting is beautiful!

What a fascinating history that location has.

Linda said, I believe, that it's called Deer Springs,

and it was a stop on the Oregon Trail.

Well, that's about all for now.

Keep making memories!

I love you!

xoxoxo

Whew!

We can stop holding our breath now ~ Seth passed his driver's test, first try! We just got home from that. When we went to meet the tester, we didn't know where the police station for Pocatello was. That's where he said to meet him, and Seth had looked up the location and directions. We took a wrong turn, but recovered and went right there then. Yay! The guy was so relaxed and nice. That was really helpful. We showed him our vehicle registration and proof of insurance and Seth's permit. They were gone around 15 minutes. And we were done with that part of things. Then we had to take the test paper, in a sealed envelope, to the Dept. of Motor Vehicles to get his license. Seth had one knife (totally legal) on him, so he had to leave it at the entrance, and I had two that I had to leave. I felt so cool with my knives! Now Seth has his actual license, good until he turns 18 and gets an adult one. I won't let him drive all over, tho, and no friends in the car at all! Still, it's so nice to know we can drive together, and I can send him on errands, and he can get to his classes! After we got Seth's license, we had to drive in circles, asking people for directions repeatedly, till we found the college bookstore. We picked up Seth's EMT book and workbook - expensive! It'll be really interesting to look at, anyway. I'm excited to see how it differs from my old EMT textbk. Now I'm eating wonderful grapes - the best ever - from Smith's. Not much else is going on. Seth is getting his hair cut, and we have appts. soon. I'm so glad to have this done! Thanks for reading my blog. : ) xoxoxo

This Is Where Mark Is

Catch Up

I finally got a shot of my new teeth. Don't I look better in them?

I think so!

Isn't this a gorgeous room?

I found it as the head photo on realestate.com, I believe

I couldn't find it there later on, so I'm glad I saved it.

I love it!!

I was thinking this a.m., about moving the sprinklers, pet care, more driving practice for Seth (we went driving yesterday - the practice goes well, except for the times Seth loses consciousness briefly, lol) and then doing all my medical things and morning routine (including going out on the back porch with Leto for a bit), I felt kind of overwhelmed by just how many things we do just to maintain things. It doesn't leave so much time for extra effort, then.

Even though Seth does many things for me, I check on and direct with him, to see that the animals and yard are cared for, so those things are part of the routine.

My point isn't that I have so much to do, because I don't, compared to all of you; it's that I realized that when we move, even if we have a house, we won't have pets, a lawn, or children to care for. When I wake up, it will be my health and grooming things and that's it. Won't that be strange? My mind and energy can then go immediately to whatever else I want to accomplish, pretty much.

I know that raising kids is my major responsibility, and those relationships are eternal and I love them, but you have to admit, the routine will be so different then. Wow. I won't know what to think! I'm really hoping to take advantage of this time, to have fun, and to be with Mark and explore the area. I would love that!

I just naturally spend time on certain things, like family, visiting with the elderly, and doing church callings (when I have them). I want to make friends in our new ward - Mark says our ward is almost all young couples, but I won't hold their age against them. ;) Our bishop and several ward members work for casinos, probably as accountants and so on, but that is plain strange to me! That's like working for the tobacco companies, or beer places. Right? I'm not judging, just surprised. Maybe it's like running for office: politics is generally corrupt, but there you are. Things aren't always black and white.

I found the zip code that feels right to me, looking at the homes and the neighborhood, and the proximity of the church bldg. Turns out, it the zip of Willow Creek at San Marten, which I didn't expect. It's a ways from the neighborhood, but is included in the same zip. Is that a sign?

Anyway, I feel really good about it.

In every neighborhood, there are a number of foreclosures. It's scary to think that 'regular' people couldn't keep their homes, but many of them were probably in construction during the housing boom there and lost their jobs.

You can do Google Earth and see all around where Mark works. The zip I like is 89113, if you want to put that in your search.

Mark's work is going well. He called me last night and asked me to check out youtube videos of a young girl on America's Got Talent, Jackie Evancho(?). She is truly amazing! And so sweet and cute. You should look her up, too (as if you all have lots of time on your hands!).

Mark might be able to fly up here some weekend. Wouldn't that be great? I've got to hurry up and do more, so that he's surprised when he gets here.

I'll tell you more when I think of more, okay? I feel a bit fuzzy-brained from not sleeping, but I just don't sleep much when Mark's not here.

Oh, I went outside at 3:30 a.m. to look for shooting stars (the Perseids are showering through Fri. a.m.), but we had total cloud coverage. I think it will be clearer the next two nights. They're in the NE sky, after midnight. With a new moon this year (not the movie ;), it's a great time to see them. I'm excited, because I've never really seen a good meteor shower and I would love to have that experience.

Thanks for reading!

xoxoxo

Bear Lake Pictures, Some Sad News, and What We're Up to Now

Miss Emme

Josh struggling to get a seat on the picnic bench (Look behing the white bundle)

An Alex and JoshM Moment

Josh, heading for the High Country

Ben and Josh against a beautiful late-afternoon sky

Danny and Alex walking together

Linda helping Josh with a juice box

She squeezed the box

and he chewed

He thought that he was chewing

the juice up the straw

Isn't that cute?

Seth, Justin, and Danny, watching the kids' toes

and the crocodile's mouth

Look what we made in the sand at Bear Lake! Aren't they cool?

We had so much fun! The weather was perfect

and the water was so refreshing!

Linda and Ben brought Josh

who crawled all around, and Justin came and played catch with Seth

I spent time in the water

and under our tarp/shelter and ate

We had sandwiches and fixin's

and chips and Oreos

(which Alaina found delightful)

and licorice and bananas and grapes

and watermelon and water

and sf punch for me

Yum!

___

As for now, Seth mowed this a.m., and I edited these pictures

and made more lists of things to do

Mark walked to the stores last night and got food

to make sandwiches

He felt shy about getting utensils from the facility

so he used a plastic knife to slice his bread and tomato

That is so pathetic

We feel for you, Mark!

He's getting ready to take the nat'l. licensing test

That's what Nevada uses for assisted living licensure

Mark always does well on tests, so I'm not worried

Seth needs to do some practice driving for his license test of a different sort

And we need to get dog food and return some jeans for Seth and do some laundry

Scary!

We have the sprinkler going, too

(mentioning that for Mark's benefit :)

We need to wash the car also

And, of course, continue packing and cleaning

Seth's room is actually looking quite nice now

And the main bedroom is about half-packed (that includes the bathroom)

I still need to do the desk, the filing cabinet and the bathroom

The living and dining room are 'easy peasy'

The kitchen will be fun, until we get to the things to store and things to get rid of

Same with the office

The craft room will be fun, since I've recently organized it

and I know what I want to take with me and I know what I want to store

The family room is pretty much all packed up; Mark did that before he left : )

The really difficult things will require Mark, too, or at least some kind of assistance

because I can't go down there

I've only seen pictures that Mark took of it

The garage will be pretty difficult too

The last things, around the yard and the garage and the basement

are always the worst to get done

They take up lots of room and they're usually heavy!

Monday, I go back to the dentist to get my teeth

Yay!!

I hope Seth gets his license Monday morning or I'll have to get a ride or change my appt.

Mel and Danny can't take me; they left today for Megan and Brooks' home

and Gr. Cripe's too

(Any potential robbers, Beware! People still on the premises!)

Justin will be working, so he won't be available

I just hope that Seth does well driving

I think he will

He's very coordinated, so we'll see

And pray for Danny and Melinda to travel safely

I have another group for us to pray for...

Roger and Mary called last night with sad news

They said our cousin Colleen

(Uncle Wimpy and Aunt Pat's daughter)

is very ill and doesn't have long to live

That is so sad! She is one of my favorite cousins!

I always think of her closeness to my mother

She was closer to Mom's ageand they were very alike

All huggy and enthusiastic and kind and generous

and very family-oriented

We will miss you, Colleen!

___ Thank you for your comments! I love you.

xoxoxo

Oh, and by the way

we weren't the ones who made the elephant and the other sand-critters... someone else spent all day making them; they said they sculpt them on one day, every year

and we were just lucky enough to be right there at Bear Lake on that particular day!

Take Care!

A Few Days So Far, and All is Pretty Well

I haven't tried downloading the photos from Bear Lake yet, so will just say it was a perfect day to swim, so beautiful and refreshing. I'm so glad Seth and I went!

Mark is enjoying his work so far. He says that the people are nice, our suite is large, the bed is comfortable, and the menu is great. What is really exciting to me is how close we are to major shopping! That's just fun to me, 'cause we've been fairly close here and have gotten spoiled; we're even closer there - right down the street is a shopping center with many stores, including Home Goods and TJ Maxx! And, if you get on the loop (nearby), the first exit goes right to a Sam's Club and Wal Mart and a ton of other stores! Also, they have a Target and a Kohl's. Shopper's (well, in our case Lookers) Heaven. Yay!

Doesn't that sound like a travel destination for all of you? I say that you all come and visit at the same time, and that we hit the shops and stores and all the unique little places around there, then we visit Lake Mead, and then we ride all the roller coasters in the area! Also, if you come in the right month, we could go to the Nat'l. Finals Rodeo, too. Or see Phantom of the Opera, Las Vegas (a little shorter version, said to be wonderful), or The Blue Men or The Trans Siberian Orchestra. Or who knows? There are some awesome rock formations near there, and Zion's Nat'l. Park isn't far.

As for Seth and me, I got my glasses and Seth got his driver's permit, he went to the dr.'s yesterday and we got meds for his sinus infection and some groceries (cheese crumbles, bananas, and some other stuffs), and I got part of our room packed up.

Tomorrow a.m., Mel is supposed to pick Seth, me, and Leto up and take us to I.F. for my dental appt. and our book club, and we'll stay overnight. Then Seth might be able to practice driving with one of them and take his test when he comes back. Then we'd have wheels and he can apply for his jobs easier, too. Wow, that would be different!

Then I'll keep up packing with my aide and Seth, and in about a week I'll get my dentures! It starts feeling like we are moving towards our present goals.

Bro. and Sis. Coles, our elderly neighbors (and home teacher), have been driving us around. We've gotten to know them so much better. Bro. Coles likes to tell about his life, which I love. He's pretty funny, and a very dedicated worker and helper. They still have their own home and garden, and they're 89! They once guessed Mark and I as being in our 70's; maybe that's young to them!

Well, take care, and I'll keep you posted!

xoxoxo

Part Three (thanks for the idea of blog parts, Megan!): Now What?

Okay, so now comes the fun stuff. I'm trying to think of this as a chance to surprise Mark. I'm going to write down what I hope to accomplish while he's gone (I'll be staying till Seth gets settled in his class and living arrangements, and till the house is ready to rent - probably we'll rent it for around 6 months, until we're more settled in Las Vegas and know we want to sell it), and then just work on those things each day.

Seth needs to get a job (he has some almost-offers so far) and take his permit test and then his license test asap (the first is on Monday). We'll be going through things, fixing things, packing things, hauling things, and sprucing things up. I have my own personal projects I want to get done, too. And we need to find a temporary (maybe permanent) place for Tut. Seth will have to find a place that takes pet deposits so that he can keep Leto, although Leto might go nuts if he's cooped up alot). Seth is already registered for his EMT class, but we need to get his book.

And I'll be getting new glasses pretty soon. They just have to make them. It will be crazy to see well, and I hope they work as well as in the drs.' office!

I'll also be getting teeth in less than 2 weeks. Can you believe that? From trying on the preparatory form, I could see how much they fill out my mouth and cheeks. Yay! I startled myself in the mirror!

I need to go now, but I'll keep you posted!

I love you!

xoxoxo

Part Two: Haley and Hunter's Visit

We've had some beautiful July weather

Made more beautiful by a visit from Haley and Hunter

While Dallin helps his uncle in San Diego !

Hunter enjoyed Grandma's pony...

He did this on his own

Isn't he sweet to thank the pony?

Better the pony than Leto! (Leto gets his turn later on)

Hunter just loves Seth

I think it's mutual, don't you?

Haley looked at old school papers

we had saved for her...

And Mr. Milky Mouth got lots of help from Leto...

But he doesn't seem to mind!

Look at these Spongebob teeth:

Thanks for coming, Haley and Hunter! Dallin, have fun painting! ;)

He's Gone...(sob)

No, not Mark - Leto, lol. He went on a walk with Seth.

But Mark really did leave for Las Vegas, around 7:15 this a.m.

We couldn't sleep, so got up in the dark and talked, remembering about ten things that we'd forgotten about, and still Mark almost left his suitcase with all his underwear and socks!

I called him when he got about 2 blocks away. "Just checking to see if this works."

Phones are nice sometimes. : )

Have a good trip, Mark! (I know he will) We said prayers together and with Seth this a.m. Mark is so tender-hearted, but he covers it up, so it startles me when he lets his cover slip.

Like he did this morning.

I love you, Mark.

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Go Back, Erase That?

Hello. Well, it feels right to stay on here while Mark goes on to Nevada. That way Seth and the pets can have more time to get situated. Seth can get a job and his dr. license, and start his classes, and I can get the house ready to rent out to a couple or someone like that. We're just not ready to sell at this point. I hope someone can come and stay with me at some pt., just for company. So, I'll let you know how it goes! xoxoxo

The Latest...

Okay, so we have thought about it and talked to Seth, and we're waiting to hear if, for a reasonable amt., certain people in our family will let Leto and Seth live with them, there in I.F., where they also have an EMT course this fall. That would be sooo much better! And we'll have to see about Tut, too. Hmmm...where could Tut go? Idk yet. Wish he could go with us. So we'll be renting storage and selling the house, and I'll go down too, asap. As soon as my teeth are done (yay!). I'm going to be so glamorous, aren't I? I'll do my nails and my hair nicely, and I'll have teeth, and maybe better glasses. Cool, huh? So, I have to go right now. I'll blog more later on! Love you! xoxoxo

P.S.

We decided that Mark will go on down in around 6 days from now, and I'll stay on another week or two. We'll still be getting rid of quite a bunch of stuff, put the rest in the garage, and leave a number of things in the house with Seth, so he can have a trial period of living here. When he gets a job, he can pay some rent. He's getting his dr. license soon, before Mark leaves, and the trial period goes till the end of EMT class, at most. So we'll see how that goes. If he wants to step up to the plate, it will be good for both of us. Let's hope he does. I don't want to put all the details in here, but one good thing, I'm getting my dentures before I go down to lv. Yay! Hope to get glasses, too, instead of dollar store ones. I got a watch and I'm doing my nails, etc. Pray for us that everything works out! I'm excited. I love to be around people even older that I am. Always have. : ) Anyway, we're still not sure we won't just rent or sell the house to someone else. Just don't know. I want to know the best alternative. We'll pray about it. Probably go with the trial period with Seth. love you! xoxoxo

Woo Hoo! (Oh no!)

Really great news, plus scary! Mark got a job in Las Vegas, as Executive Director (administrator) of a memory-care unit attached to an assisted living unit. The company (Willowcreek - you can look up the facility at willowcreeklv.com, the St. Martens (sp?) facility) seems like a really good one, bases in LV, and the people, too. He was a construction owner, and built many bldgs. around there, besides the asst. living buildings (3) in LV. He is LDS, and the business is family-owned and operated, but has many employees and directors that aren't fam. members. Anyway, the places are soooo nice, and they are the leading assted livs. in lv. (Sorry, I'm in a big hurry!) We can live at the facility as long as we need to, and we plan on selling this (real est. lady has already come) Seth wants to stay here with Leto - we'll need to work out where he'll be staying or if he'll come with us. Anyway, we need your help to put things in storage (you can have lots if you help!) and clean afterwards. If you can, please let us know. I have to go to the dentist's today, so am leaving in a bit. We need to pick Seth up from Josh's so we can talk. We need to talk to Mel, too. Anyway, that's the lowdown. I'll tell you more later on. thanks! love you! xoxoxo

Sunday Afternoon, and It's Hunter's Birthday : )

Hi! Not much going on here. Except that a place in another state out here is interested in Mark, so that's exciting! Good for him to have a place to consider, too. It's like when you look at a house, you have a possibility; before that, everything about where you're going to live is vague and scary. Even if you don't get that place, it gives you something concrete to consider.

I can't really remember much beyond that. It's been fairly hot, but pleasant, and Mark has been looking for work, and I have been reading Lisa See's books (Mark got another at the library here, for me), and we both do some things on the computer, and we're still doing the healthy eating thing, which is nice, and Mark spent a couple of days working on the garage, which looks soooo much better, and that's mostly everything!

Happy birthday, Hunter! And tomorrow's your mommy's birthday, and then your Aunt Megan's birthday! How about that? We'll tell them Happy Birthday then. : )

Mary Howald got married yesterday - isn't that amazing? Isn't she a little kid still? My mind wants to hang on to the memories of kids the way they were the last time I saw them.

Congratulations, Mary!

And that's all I have to say for now. We love you and are thinking about you!

xoxoxo

Today is Thursday, and It's the Middle of July Already!

Hello! Thank you to those of you who comment on my blog, and to those who just read my posts; I reallly appreciate that!

Things have been quiet around here. Last night, Mark and Seth and I sat down on the back patio and Mark had Seth pull Tut's tail thru the hole in the patio table and hold it. Tut totally submitted to his imprisonment and was basically happy, anyway. That, in a nutshell, describes Tut's adorable attitude toward life: "Don't worry, be happy."

Seth and Mark have been giving apples off of our tree (still little and green) to the new horses next door, an Appaloosa and an almost black horse. The Appaloosa is very friendly and calm; the other horse bites its neck when it wants all the attention, so we have stopped the treats, to spare the Appaloosa's neck.

Mark just went to the store, and Seth is here. I came in from outside, where Mark and I go to soak up the sun each day, me for the light it puts in my hair, and he for color in his face. He uses allergy eye drops, and his eyes are clearer. We are on a loose eating plan, based on the one Haley and Megan use, and we are doing other things to improve our health in a general way, over time.

Also, looking better will probably help Mark if he gets to the interview stage on a job.

The promising job in Boise is, for now, being filled. Mark sent them a thank you, anyway, to keep him in their minds. You never know when they'll have another opening somewhere. It's a big company.

It's pretty hard on Mark when he's not chosen for a job, although he knows that God's hand is over all. It's hard to be unemployed, at least for a guy like Mark. He's generally cheerful, but he also half-jokingly refers to himself as 'unemployable, or jokes about why he wasn't hired, or questions the possible strange reasons why he didn't get the job, such as bizarre reference letters from his friends.

I'll admit, the latter thing is funny to contemplate. There is so much scope for the imagination, as Anne of Green Gables would point out. lol

Let's see...what else? Megan and Brooks made it safely back to W. VA, and Phillip made it back to Ft. Leonardwood. And that's about all that's been happening around here! Nice and quiet. What's been happening in your lives? Let me know, take care, and know that I love you!

xoxoxo

Lots of Pictures of July! (See Post Below)

No words for this one...

'The Look'

Mark demonstrating the joys of dry ice Phillip playing a game?

Only picture I got of him!

Melinda getting ready for the bbq at their place See the cute kitchen they remodeled?

Dreamy-eyed Hunter

Hey, who are you, anyway?

Josh and Hunter notice each other

You're the same size I am!

Hmm...interesting

The Wild Blue Yonder

Grandpa, Leto, and Aiden, just sittin' a spell

That's one BIG tongue!

Grandma 'walking' with Audrey and Anya

Anya hangin' with Grandpa (see top picture :)

This is the Fourth of July?!!!

Aiden - Cameraman; Anya and Audrey - Just Cute!

Tristan peeking out of his hoodie While sister Lainie stands by Mom More cuteness!

Patriotic horses

And calves

Sad goodbyes

Well, not too sad...

I love this picture

and the one below...

Even Leto looks a little sad : (

But soon, Audrey waxes philosophical

And gives us The Look as we wave goodbye

--We'll miss you, Haroldsens!-- Good thing some grandkids are still around

To photograph!

Josh visiting Tut

And riding Leto!

And that's the end of the pictures for now

Although I would've taken more

Our camera's storage filled up too fast

To catch all the wonderful moments!

xoxoxo